The Dutch Tavern

Written By Deb McGrath

If there's one cherished gem in New London that stands out for both its character and camaraderie, it has to be The Dutch. Stepping through that iconic red door is like entering a cherished memory; a welcoming embrace from a long-lost friend. I still remember my first visit back in 2003, my roommate insisted I check it out, touting the local vibe, cheap drinks, and excellent atmosphere. She was spot on. The Dutch quickly became a staple, a place where laughter mingled with clinking cans.

 

Fast forward to 2007, a monumental year when I met my husband Casey. It just so happened that the Dutch held a special place in his heart as well. To him, it’s not merely a bar; it’s like home. The familiar faces of regulars still gather around the bar, doing what good friends do, squeezing up a seat to make room for others, sharing tables and stories with those they’ve just met. It’s this sense of community that transforms each visit into an experience, rather than just another outing.

 

The beer, cold Schaefer- still flowing proudly, a delicious nod to tradition amidst the evolving landscape of craft beers. Tim and Vic, the owners, exude warmth and friendliness that makes everyone feel included. Then there’s Ellie, the beloved bartender who has mastered the art of remembering names and everyone’s favorite orders. Her genuine care adds a personal touch that creates a familial bond among patrons.

 

The Dutch isn’t just a local watering hole; it became a sanctuary during challenging times. Throughout my battle with cancer, the support I received from this bar community. . .owners, staff, locals, and even tourists, was nothing short of remarkable. Their kindness and understanding turned moments of struggle into memories of strength and resilience.

 

This photo, snapped moments before the lively St. Patrick’s Day celebration, captures the essence of The Dutch perfectly. You can almost hear the raucous laughter and feel the energy as the crowd swells to standing-room-only, everyone united by the spirit of community.

 

I am truly proud to call The Dutch one of my favorite spots and to be part of this incredible community that wholeheartedly supports small businesses. It’s more than just a place to grab a drink and a bite; it’s a testament to the power of connection, good times, and belonging. So here’s to The Dutch! A place where hearts are warmed, friendships are forged, and everyone is always welcome. Cheers!

 

New London, CT

Deb McGrath

Debbie McGrath has spent much of her life sitting in “other people’s chairs”—in boardrooms, at leadership tables, and in the quiet, defining moments where she was called to rise, support, or simply endure. A three-time cancer survivor, Debbie understands firsthand what it means to navigate both the visible and invisible challenges life places before us. Each chapter of her journey has shaped her into a resilient, compassionate, and purpose-driven leader who doesn’t just occupy space—she transforms it.

A dedicated and influential force within the Southeastern Connecticut Women’s Network, Debbie previously served as President and is preparing to step into the role once again. Her leadership is marked by action, intention, and a deep commitment to elevating others. Known for bringing diverse voices to the table and creating meaningful opportunities for connection, she has built a reputation not just as a leader, but as someone who makes things happen—someone who ensures there is always a seat available, even if she has to build the table herself.

Grounded by the unwavering support of those closest to her and strengthened by the trials she has faced, Debbie has learned to move through life with equal parts grit and grace. Her experiences have given her a profound understanding of identity, belonging, and the courage it takes to claim your place in the world. Other People’s Chairs is a reflection of that journey—an honest, thought-provoking exploration of the roles we step into, the spaces we inherit, and the ones we ultimately choose for ourselves. Debbie invites readers to reflect on how we show up in life, and what it truly means to claim our own chair unapologetically while offering grace and understanding to those sitting in theirs.

Debbie Currently lives in Waterford, Connecticut with her loving husband Casey.

https://www.otherpeopleschairs.com
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