The Bow

Written By Deb McGrath

Other Peoples Chairs

What is a chair? A Place to sit, kick your shoes off or rest maybe? I have taken photos over the years of chairs in the wild, benches at the beach, Adirondacks in someone’s yard and a few inside. Chairs are relaxing to me. Even the broken ones.

This book is a photo collection with quotes from friends, stories from my life and inspiration.

The Bow - Funky Bow Brewery

Lyman, Maine

These two blue chairs are holding space for what matters most. Between them, a simple offering from Funky Bow Brewery, the yurt beers stacked with care, a handwritten note resting on top, promising good times and easy laughter. It’s the kind of setup that doesn’t rush anything. Sit, sip, talk, stay longer than planned. The deck knows these moments well.

Deb McGrath

Debbie McGrath has spent much of her life sitting in “other people’s chairs”—in boardrooms, at leadership tables, and in the quiet, defining moments where she was called to rise, support, or simply endure. A three-time cancer survivor, Debbie understands firsthand what it means to navigate both the visible and invisible challenges life places before us. Each chapter of her journey has shaped her into a resilient, compassionate, and purpose-driven leader who doesn’t just occupy space—she transforms it.

A dedicated and influential force within the Southeastern Connecticut Women’s Network, Debbie previously served as President and is preparing to step into the role once again. Her leadership is marked by action, intention, and a deep commitment to elevating others. Known for bringing diverse voices to the table and creating meaningful opportunities for connection, she has built a reputation not just as a leader, but as someone who makes things happen—someone who ensures there is always a seat available, even if she has to build the table herself.

Grounded by the unwavering support of those closest to her and strengthened by the trials she has faced, Debbie has learned to move through life with equal parts grit and grace. Her experiences have given her a profound understanding of identity, belonging, and the courage it takes to claim your place in the world. Other People’s Chairs is a reflection of that journey—an honest, thought-provoking exploration of the roles we step into, the spaces we inherit, and the ones we ultimately choose for ourselves. Debbie invites readers to reflect on how we show up in life, and what it truly means to claim our own chair unapologetically while offering grace and understanding to those sitting in theirs.

Debbie Currently lives in Waterford, Connecticut with her loving husband Casey.

https://www.otherpeopleschairs.com
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